"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how many people here are gonna be negative and sad on valentines day
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what kind of thread is THIS? *sigh*
Anyways... V-day is another day, much like any other day of the year... so asking this is just like asking " So who is gonna be sad and pissed off tomorrow" .... The answer... we dont know.
Laterz...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I will be 'cos there's a good chance I may be guilt tripped into taking someone out.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
Valentines Day is a day where love is reunited, giving and taking is again relieved and its an excuse to find love or to find a partner. Its just like Human Rights Day or Independence day on those days we celebrate the rights of us as humans on earth and independence day we celebrate our independence as a country (USA). So valentines day we celebrate our love for our partner or we celebrate the concept of love as a whole. Yes, it may be just another day but its a GREAT EXCUSE to find someone in your life and its also a proven fact that during this period from 10th february to 14th, the girls are more open to you because all girls want to be loved and want to be kissed, im telling you now no girl wants to be alone on valentines day. So in that context aequitas is correct that it is just another day, but a SPECIAL day(dont forget that). Valentines day is here to stay, its not going, it wont be done away with, so why fight it? Rather, get used to it, and use it to our DON JUAN advantage by meeting girls, getting presents and finding a partner to love.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, Anything Else... and a last thing... this thread is probably one of the most pessimistic I've come across in a while. I mean, come on people!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Ben
However, it turned out really well. One of the best I can remember in fact.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I had 4 girls I could have asked out for valentines day! But of course, I had to take my girflriend. You need to be approaching more and creating a stable! In the time you spent writing this thread alone, you could have had one more number! Until you realise this and grab your balls and do it, you will always be stuck on sosuave wishing you could be like that guy you see down the street with a honey!
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