Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How many of you work out? And what's the point of it!?

Anonimmus

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I play football every Saturday and go to the gym two times a week. Also I like to watch matches online, my favorite league in LaLiga:) If you interested here you can check all matches results and statistics.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FairShake

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I don't lift anymore but I do copious amounts of bodyweight exercises, swim, and play basketball twice a week. I do it because I have a fairly physical job at times and want to keep up, want to maintain a healthy lifestyle, and yeah, I look better this way.
 

smokeforfun

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I work out for fun, I work out for that feeling of being fit, I work out to clear my mind.
As somebody said earlier, aestethics are just a bonus. Altough I really want that bonus.
 

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Ok, I don't mean to start anything, but I've just been thinking a lot lately. First of all, I work out all the time....still. In high school I made all conference in baseball and football, and outlifted most of the linemen as a linebacker/safety. So I've kept working out this last year and this summer. But lately I've been wondering what's the point. Before I had a motivation to get stronger and faster so I could be a better athlete. Well, I don't play sports anymore, as I'm a full time student at wisconsin. Also, competing against my teammates to see who could lift more was awesome, but now I have no teammates.

Lately when I work out I still love the feeling, but at the end of the day I'm not sure why I do it anymore. So I can bench 280 pounds....so what? It seems to me like it doesn't matter anymore. lol not to mention squats...why bother anymore? Not only that but it's a hassle sometimes....I don't work as much as I could to make time to work out, and I go to bed early in the summertime (well, earlyish, 12-1am) to get up at 9 and go workout. Not to mention that I could be making more money in that time, or pursuing my other passion, music.

I'm not saying I'd be a total bum, as I'd still eat healthy and stay active with recreational sports...but even then do girls really care about a guy being ripped as opposed to just toned?

By the way, I've never worked out to get girls, I've always done it for me. Sorry if this is pointless, I just feel kinda down right now and trying to see if I'm doing the right decisions with my life and I guess I needed to get this out.
Increases testosterone. That has many benefits.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sosousage

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you workout to lookmax and you lookmax to get sex


if you can get sex without lookmaxing then you dont need to come here
 

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I work out and have done for years, although I'm basically a 'non-responder' lol.
I stopped working out a few weeks back as it feels so pointless. My body is like 3% better if I work out 5 days a week than if I don't bother.
I'm basically always gonna be semi-in shape, either way. Maybe slightly 'skinny fat' tbh, but lucky to have a small waste, fairly decent shoulders etc

I can only assume my T levels are like those of an 8 year old girl. I'm considering starting low dose T if I start working out again to see if it can help me shed some stubborn fat (that's only noticable naked) and also help with increasing my muscle mass

I feel like working out without steroids is maybe kinda pointless for most guys
 
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