"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many of you work out? And what's the point of it!?

Anonimmus

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I play football every Saturday and go to the gym two times a week. Also I like to watch matches online, my favorite league in LaLiga:) If you interested here you can check all matches results and statistics.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FairShake

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I don't lift anymore but I do copious amounts of bodyweight exercises, swim, and play basketball twice a week. I do it because I have a fairly physical job at times and want to keep up, want to maintain a healthy lifestyle, and yeah, I look better this way.
 

smokeforfun

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I work out for fun, I work out for that feeling of being fit, I work out to clear my mind.
As somebody said earlier, aestethics are just a bonus. Altough I really want that bonus.
 

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Ok, I don't mean to start anything, but I've just been thinking a lot lately. First of all, I work out all the time....still. In high school I made all conference in baseball and football, and outlifted most of the linemen as a linebacker/safety. So I've kept working out this last year and this summer. But lately I've been wondering what's the point. Before I had a motivation to get stronger and faster so I could be a better athlete. Well, I don't play sports anymore, as I'm a full time student at wisconsin. Also, competing against my teammates to see who could lift more was awesome, but now I have no teammates.

Lately when I work out I still love the feeling, but at the end of the day I'm not sure why I do it anymore. So I can bench 280 pounds....so what? It seems to me like it doesn't matter anymore. lol not to mention squats...why bother anymore? Not only that but it's a hassle sometimes....I don't work as much as I could to make time to work out, and I go to bed early in the summertime (well, earlyish, 12-1am) to get up at 9 and go workout. Not to mention that I could be making more money in that time, or pursuing my other passion, music.

I'm not saying I'd be a total bum, as I'd still eat healthy and stay active with recreational sports...but even then do girls really care about a guy being ripped as opposed to just toned?

By the way, I've never worked out to get girls, I've always done it for me. Sorry if this is pointless, I just feel kinda down right now and trying to see if I'm doing the right decisions with my life and I guess I needed to get this out.
Increases testosterone. That has many benefits.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sosousage

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you workout to lookmax and you lookmax to get sex


if you can get sex without lookmaxing then you dont need to come here
 

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I work out and have done for years, although I'm basically a 'non-responder' lol.
I stopped working out a few weeks back as it feels so pointless. My body is like 3% better if I work out 5 days a week than if I don't bother.
I'm basically always gonna be semi-in shape, either way. Maybe slightly 'skinny fat' tbh, but lucky to have a small waste, fairly decent shoulders etc

I can only assume my T levels are like those of an 8 year old girl. I'm considering starting low dose T if I start working out again to see if it can help me shed some stubborn fat (that's only noticable naked) and also help with increasing my muscle mass

I feel like working out without steroids is maybe kinda pointless for most guys
 
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