You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This is helpful especially at a time that anyone can start freaking out at any of the common cold or seasonal flu symptoms and think its covid19. I've been hyper-vigilant about every little symptom I have and there are only a few signature covid19 symptoms: breathing problems, losing sense of smell or taste. A chart like this really puts things into perspective. However, body aches should mark common because there have been allot of complaints about this, especially from those admitted to hospital.
Damned UK HealthCare, I don't believe ANYTHING they say. Even worse, this chart basically lines up with the one my physician-ex sent me to help me monitor my kids' health when they are with me. But, pshaw, why should I believe a chart that:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Stop spreading misinformation. The worst-case scenario forecasts were 2.2 million deaths without intervention such as social distancing. As of this post, NY hospitals are already nearing capacity with peak still at least 2-3 weeks out.But the very best forecasters are predicting millions of deaths, especially when the hospital beds fill up any day now. Brilliant forecasters.
It's in your head as sore throat is not a symptom of COVID-19. It can be a common cold or standard flu. Go to the mirror, use the back of spoon/knife/fork and depress your tongue. Is it bright red or white?I had a slight temperature couple of days ago, and just a slight touch of a sore throat.
Temperature is back to normal and I never developed a cough.
Still worried to fuk though!
“Brilliant forecasters” is sarcasm or no?Ah so now I am no longer downplaying this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Had a cough for over 3 weeks but no feverI had a slight temperature couple of days ago, and just a slight touch of a sore throat.
Temperature is back to normal and I never developed a cough.
Still worried to fuk though!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If anyone does get sick and tests positive, I bet their minds start playing tricks on them.
Like they might think they're sicker than they really are, even if they just have a mild case of it.
Anxiety will do that.
Woke up yesterday with an itchy throat. Figured out it was seasonal allergies after it cleared up when getting ready, but hit me again a little when outside as I stared at my black car that turned green.I had a slight temperature couple of days ago, and just a slight touch of a sore throat.
Temperature is back to normal and I never developed a cough.
Still worried to fuk though!
I am confident I have this virus.. Been having breathing issues.Woke up yesterday with an itchy throat. Figured out it was seasonal allergies after it cleared up when getting ready, but hit me again a little when outside as I stared at my black car that turned green.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.