"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've stopped half way through jerking off and told myself this is just not working out..
 
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Poonani Maker said:
stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
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Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
 
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Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
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I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
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If you're fvcking her then the power is in your court.

You won.

Why would you want to stop fvcking her. Makes no sense to me at all.

Furthermore, how bad can she be? Even if she is a dead fish it's better than jacking off. IMHO.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex when it isn't good is just a workout if anything. Well I personally haven't stopped during sex even if it was bad because it is at least better than jacking off, but you'll also be dead tired.
 
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