"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Poonani Maker

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stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've stopped half way through jerking off and told myself this is just not working out..
 

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Poonani Maker said:
stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
If you're fvcking her then the power is in your court.

You won.

Why would you want to stop fvcking her. Makes no sense to me at all.

Furthermore, how bad can she be? Even if she is a dead fish it's better than jacking off. IMHO.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sex when it isn't good is just a workout if anything. Well I personally haven't stopped during sex even if it was bad because it is at least better than jacking off, but you'll also be dead tired.
 
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