"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poonani Maker

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stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've stopped half way through jerking off and told myself this is just not working out..
 

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Poonani Maker said:
stopped midway through ****ing a woman said, "I'm sorry. This just ain't working out." and didn't finish.

I used to have to finish no matter what but now that I'm older I can stop at will and cut her off even if she's turning me on. I no longer have to finish, especially if she's not doing it right.
Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Um, is there a legitimate reason you would ever do this? Are you trying to make a point/be macho or is the sex that bad? Even if it was that bad, I would still want to get my nut. Your post doesn't make a lot of sense.
I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I guess it's just me knowing that the power is in my court whether we will sleep with one another. I get to decide who I'm gonna sleep with. If she's not performing up to my expectations then I'll go somewheres else. It's a mind over matter thing.
If you're fvcking her then the power is in your court.

You won.

Why would you want to stop fvcking her. Makes no sense to me at all.

Furthermore, how bad can she be? Even if she is a dead fish it's better than jacking off. IMHO.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex when it isn't good is just a workout if anything. Well I personally haven't stopped during sex even if it was bad because it is at least better than jacking off, but you'll also be dead tired.
 
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