You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
eminence said:i just did a few hours ago for the first time and I left my white tshirt on while i was ****ing her doggy, it looked like i fvcking murdered someone.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sure, I can see your point of view. But, if the sex is good and she wants to fvck; i'll do it. Its all personal preference.typical said:Holy crap are you guys that depraved of sex to do ya women while shes on rags ? Man yuck !
On the other hand most girls (well most girls with any sort of class) wont let you anywhere near her during those 3-5 days. Show a little self control you cant be that desperate for some action could you ?
BUT if you must do it then do it in the shower keeps everything nice and clean.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
A real man doesn't have to worry about getting tested for HIV.Any type of blood play is a loaded gun these days. How do you know the last guy who buried a pool in her didn't drop any infection in there, festering for some damned fool to come along and fvck her on her period? Your friend is an idiot if he or you believe this. If you don't have the goddamned patience to forego the pvssy for 4-5 days a month you're weak and childish.Fuglydude said:I don't normally do it, but have done it in the past...as one of my buddies says...a real man isn't afraid to get a bitta blood on his cack!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah years ago on my old bed..xdreamz said:ok how many people still have bloodspots on their bed...?
*raises hand*
As far as this topic goes though, I'm with typical. Tried it, and its just downright nasty. Its either fresh blood red and it looks like you tried to murder her, or its been a few days and its that dried brown color that stinks and sticks to your wang.typical said:Holy crap are you guys that depraved of sex to do ya women while shes on rags ? Man yuck !
haha i chuckled when i read this.xdreamz said:ok how many people still have bloodspots on their bed...?
*raises hand*
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.