I can empathise with you. If you ever met me I never come across insecure at all, not one bit. I seem confident and outgoing yet sometimes, just sometimes I have moments of insecurity. I do think it's only natural. Nobody is perfect and sometimes it's overly easy to work out your own faults.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How many of you can say you still battle with insecurity.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SeymourCake
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Yeah, I don't have great teeth so I'm conscious about smiling and sometimes I feel like I don't meet the standard of an ideal height most women love. I'm 5'9 and I wish I was about 6'3.
JohnChops
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yeah i have to agree, i used to be pretty damn fat. Now im at a low body fat percentage and still think im not right yet -___-, everyone tells me how good I look and yet I still feel like murdering myself at the gym, running sprints, running miles just to get a good look. Fvcking sucks kind of......