I can empathise with you. If you ever met me I never come across insecure at all, not one bit. I seem confident and outgoing yet sometimes, just sometimes I have moments of insecurity. I do think it's only natural. Nobody is perfect and sometimes it's overly easy to work out your own faults.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How many of you can say you still battle with insecurity.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SeymourCake
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Yeah, I don't have great teeth so I'm conscious about smiling and sometimes I feel like I don't meet the standard of an ideal height most women love. I'm 5'9 and I wish I was about 6'3.
JohnChops
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yeah i have to agree, i used to be pretty damn fat. Now im at a low body fat percentage and still think im not right yet -___-, everyone tells me how good I look and yet I still feel like murdering myself at the gym, running sprints, running miles just to get a good look. Fvcking sucks kind of......