I can empathise with you. If you ever met me I never come across insecure at all, not one bit. I seem confident and outgoing yet sometimes, just sometimes I have moments of insecurity. I do think it's only natural. Nobody is perfect and sometimes it's overly easy to work out your own faults.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How many of you can say you still battle with insecurity.
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SeymourCake
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Yeah, I don't have great teeth so I'm conscious about smiling and sometimes I feel like I don't meet the standard of an ideal height most women love. I'm 5'9 and I wish I was about 6'3.
JohnChops
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yeah i have to agree, i used to be pretty damn fat. Now im at a low body fat percentage and still think im not right yet -___-, everyone tells me how good I look and yet I still feel like murdering myself at the gym, running sprints, running miles just to get a good look. Fvcking sucks kind of......