"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many of you are capable of taking rejection?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
BornWinner
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I hate what others will think of me if I am rejected. I dont want to look like a chump in front of everyone.
Surprisingly, I dont get all pissed off when I am rejected for a job. I applied 30-40 applicatons and I got about 6-7 interviews. And even if I managed to get to the interview phase, I am not able to get hired. And I don't get pissed off.......
The only time I got pissed off is when I tried to do pickup. Being such a wuss and acting like a chump, I humiliated myself a few times. DARN IT!!!!!!!!
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Dating is a numbers game, so a lot of the time it just wont come together, big deal! Confidence is knowing that if a girl was in the right situation/ state of mind she would go for you, but accepting you don't control the world.
Well...yet
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Amen. Statistically you're more likely to be rejected.. so go out and have fun with it! There's nothing like swapping war stories with your palsOriginally posted by Cloud-uk
Being rejected is just one of those things you have to laugh off. When you weigh it all up, a tiny proportion of women are actually girlfriend/date material. Just because you got the wrong one doesn't make you any less of a man. We are Don Juans, a girl rejecting us is not us messing up, and its not them messing up, its just...putting your hand in a lucky dip box and coming out with the joke prize.
Dating is a numbers game, so a lot of the time it just wont come together, big deal! Confidence is knowing that if a girl was in the right situation/ state of mind she would go for you, but accepting you don't control the world.
Well...yet
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I told her: Okey, and smiled
And then i asked myself.. "wooow come on now, i should feel much worst that i do" whats wrong! Nothings wrong, everything is just as it should be. I just don't give a **** about it man, i love life to much to be wasting it on this girl.
THA REALNESS
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On the 17 of December, I met a strawberry blond. She approached me, introduced herself and we talked for about 30 minutes. I got her number and excused myself to get some more beer.
I called her three times over the past two weeks, no answer, no answering machine.
I saw her again last night and tried to make a plan for this next Wednesday. She told me that she felt a cold coming on and didn't think she'd be up to it. Well, that's better than flaking on me Wednesday night. So, I get up and talk to a prettier girl and lay the mack down. No worries.
Moral:
It's easy to mistake friendliness for interest, especially when you've had a few vodka's with grapefruit.
If it's a straight out rejection, I'm even a bit impressed.
However, if I don't get a single phone number, when I'm out a night, I'm feeling a bit down and some kind of anger, because I've been working really hard to overcome my shyness and the women just have to stand there and wait. (I want my reward for working hard, you know?)
What I REALLY REALLY hate is sh*t like not answering the phone when I call.
Then I can never be sure, if she doesn't want to date me anymore or if she just didn't take her cell with her/ wasn't at home.