"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many of us are good DJs or good BSers

What percent of ppl here are really DJs?


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Rint

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I was looking through the post by people and i'm sick of seeing some ****y ass punk saying he's a DJ. It makes me sick seeing all these ****y punks parading around saying their DJs and posting up **** like "look at this pic of me and hot girl i got game" So i want your guy's opinion how many of us are really DJs or are full of ****
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Contender

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You need something between 75% and 100%. I'd say most of us are honest about what's going on - around 98-99 percent; there's no point in bullsh!ting.

This community is about improvement; only the 'trolls' do the bull****ing; there hasn't been much of that lately.
 

Dutchy

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I agree with Contender. Only a few are full of crap and the rest is a Don Juan, or is busy to improve himself to become one.
 

S1NN3R

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I'd say high 90s are genuine about their situation, but those aren't the ones begging everyone to see how DJ they are. The ones that are genuine are the guys who are on here asking for advice, or giving out advice without having to tell people every other sentence how much of a pimp they are.

Of the guys who come on here and say "I'm so DJ, there's no question that I'm a player, pay attention to me, I'm so alpha it hurts!!", I'd guess that approximately ZERO of them are actually even half-decent with women. Fortunately, most of them are such obvious losers that it's easy to spot them and take everything they say with the knowledge that they are only saying it to impress someone.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'd say half got game, the other half are working on their game.

Theres some Dj's around here, but then theres quite a few kids who are attempting to become what the "DJ" symbolizes, confident guy who is always on a path to bettering himself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Penguinplayer

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You know I came here wanting to know how to seduce women, and to be honest this site has it all. But the reason I stayed is because I realised (as many of us have) that women aren't everything and life is about becoming a real man.
People who brag about their exploits with women sadly haven't realised this, and sadly are real men...
 

Bling

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I know I'm better than 75% of people, not matter what it is. School, sports, etc. I haven't become a DJ, and neither have you. You're not a Don Juan until you have many girls numbers, and aren't shy to approach.
 

Distant Light

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if there was 1% thats is what i'd pick. 1 out of 100 people on this site I would consider DJs because most of the questions,content, etc is horrible or very low quality.
 

AC/DC

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Distant Light said:
if there was 1% thats is what i'd pick. 1 out of 100 people on this site I would consider DJs because most of the questions,content, etc is horrible or very low quality.
Yep.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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