"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many of us are good DJs or good BSers

What percent of ppl here are really DJs?


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Rint

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I was looking through the post by people and i'm sick of seeing some ****y ass punk saying he's a DJ. It makes me sick seeing all these ****y punks parading around saying their DJs and posting up **** like "look at this pic of me and hot girl i got game" So i want your guy's opinion how many of us are really DJs or are full of ****
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Contender

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You need something between 75% and 100%. I'd say most of us are honest about what's going on - around 98-99 percent; there's no point in bullsh!ting.

This community is about improvement; only the 'trolls' do the bull****ing; there hasn't been much of that lately.
 

Dutchy

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I agree with Contender. Only a few are full of crap and the rest is a Don Juan, or is busy to improve himself to become one.
 

S1NN3R

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I'd say high 90s are genuine about their situation, but those aren't the ones begging everyone to see how DJ they are. The ones that are genuine are the guys who are on here asking for advice, or giving out advice without having to tell people every other sentence how much of a pimp they are.

Of the guys who come on here and say "I'm so DJ, there's no question that I'm a player, pay attention to me, I'm so alpha it hurts!!", I'd guess that approximately ZERO of them are actually even half-decent with women. Fortunately, most of them are such obvious losers that it's easy to spot them and take everything they say with the knowledge that they are only saying it to impress someone.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'd say half got game, the other half are working on their game.

Theres some Dj's around here, but then theres quite a few kids who are attempting to become what the "DJ" symbolizes, confident guy who is always on a path to bettering himself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Penguinplayer

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You know I came here wanting to know how to seduce women, and to be honest this site has it all. But the reason I stayed is because I realised (as many of us have) that women aren't everything and life is about becoming a real man.
People who brag about their exploits with women sadly haven't realised this, and sadly are real men...
 

Bling

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I know I'm better than 75% of people, not matter what it is. School, sports, etc. I haven't become a DJ, and neither have you. You're not a Don Juan until you have many girls numbers, and aren't shy to approach.
 

Distant Light

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if there was 1% thats is what i'd pick. 1 out of 100 people on this site I would consider DJs because most of the questions,content, etc is horrible or very low quality.
 

AC/DC

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Distant Light said:
if there was 1% thats is what i'd pick. 1 out of 100 people on this site I would consider DJs because most of the questions,content, etc is horrible or very low quality.
Yep.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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