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Master Don Juan
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So where are all the field reports? Im not saying just up up threesome reports, but geez....havent read about anyone going out in a while.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i do believe this happened but it needs way more of a break down than what you've postedenglishman said:I went out on Sunday last week to meet a friend. When I go there he was with his sister in law. Anyway long story short he had to take off for a meeting, he paid his bill and left quickly leaving me and her at the bar.
I said I'd put her in a taxi... so we had one more beer and left, I walked her to the taxi rank and she hooked my arm and walked us past it.
So I walked her to my place which was close by.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bro,str8-2-BONEzone said:i had another weekend with lots of tail lol but not 3in1nite this timebut thats cool i gotta take it kinda easy :yawn: just had a babe friday and saturday then meeting a booty call later 2nite its be hot sex w this babe shes a dawg in the sack if u no what i meen :box: :rockon:
i got this booty call hb8 by showing my ALPHA WARIOR then take her to the gun show :yes: :yes: thats how u pick up hb8s i am also a mentor 4 many pals u gota make the move from just alpha to alpha warior then u can have no hard time EVER 2 get hb8s and laff at the beta chump loosers :kick:
I know that feel bro. I went through a Tinder phase earlier this year that left me feeling empty and odd. I just realized that I didnt really like the quick hooking up with chicks I didnt know well nor had any sort of feeling for. But still I dont like the idea of being in a bf/gf committed relationship because of all the bad sh!t people can do and usually do.In2theGame said:I have a bunch of field reports but then it would look like im bragging if I wrote them. Last weekend i picked up 4 girls, 2 girls picked me up in the subway, I had 2 ONS and 2 other chick that im seeing that i also fvcked. I kinda got to the point where my c0ck was sore and i didnt even want to smell another vag for a bit. As for this weekend, I hooked up with one of my main girls (shes trying to get me to be her boyfriend, im thinking about it though) and I also tried getting one of my ex GF i dated last year out again but that fell through and tonight im headed out again with some friends to chill out as i think tomorrow is going to rain. I have 3 girls i can also call to hang out with and bring along but i dunno if i should yet. All this stuff sounds great and feels great at the time, however, its exhausting and at the end of it.... I feel kind of empty inside, thats why im considering having my main girl as my official girlfriend. On the other hand, i know a bunch of guys that are depressed because they found out their girlfriend or Wives have been screwing around on them or making their lives miserable and makes me wonder..... Would i rather be depressed in an emotional roller coaster or feel empty for a bit.......
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.