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Master Don Juan
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So where are all the field reports? Im not saying just up up threesome reports, but geez....havent read about anyone going out in a while.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i do believe this happened but it needs way more of a break down than what you've postedenglishman said:I went out on Sunday last week to meet a friend. When I go there he was with his sister in law. Anyway long story short he had to take off for a meeting, he paid his bill and left quickly leaving me and her at the bar.
I said I'd put her in a taxi... so we had one more beer and left, I walked her to the taxi rank and she hooked my arm and walked us past it.
So I walked her to my place which was close by.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bro,str8-2-BONEzone said:i had another weekend with lots of tail lol but not 3in1nite this timebut thats cool i gotta take it kinda easy :yawn: just had a babe friday and saturday then meeting a booty call later 2nite its be hot sex w this babe shes a dawg in the sack if u no what i meen :box: :rockon:
i got this booty call hb8 by showing my ALPHA WARIOR then take her to the gun show :yes: :yes: thats how u pick up hb8s i am also a mentor 4 many pals u gota make the move from just alpha to alpha warior then u can have no hard time EVER 2 get hb8s and laff at the beta chump loosers :kick:
I know that feel bro. I went through a Tinder phase earlier this year that left me feeling empty and odd. I just realized that I didnt really like the quick hooking up with chicks I didnt know well nor had any sort of feeling for. But still I dont like the idea of being in a bf/gf committed relationship because of all the bad sh!t people can do and usually do.In2theGame said:I have a bunch of field reports but then it would look like im bragging if I wrote them. Last weekend i picked up 4 girls, 2 girls picked me up in the subway, I had 2 ONS and 2 other chick that im seeing that i also fvcked. I kinda got to the point where my c0ck was sore and i didnt even want to smell another vag for a bit. As for this weekend, I hooked up with one of my main girls (shes trying to get me to be her boyfriend, im thinking about it though) and I also tried getting one of my ex GF i dated last year out again but that fell through and tonight im headed out again with some friends to chill out as i think tomorrow is going to rain. I have 3 girls i can also call to hang out with and bring along but i dunno if i should yet. All this stuff sounds great and feels great at the time, however, its exhausting and at the end of it.... I feel kind of empty inside, thats why im considering having my main girl as my official girlfriend. On the other hand, i know a bunch of guys that are depressed because they found out their girlfriend or Wives have been screwing around on them or making their lives miserable and makes me wonder..... Would i rather be depressed in an emotional roller coaster or feel empty for a bit.......
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.