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Master Don Juan
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So where are all the field reports? Im not saying just up up threesome reports, but geez....havent read about anyone going out in a while.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i do believe this happened but it needs way more of a break down than what you've postedenglishman said:I went out on Sunday last week to meet a friend. When I go there he was with his sister in law. Anyway long story short he had to take off for a meeting, he paid his bill and left quickly leaving me and her at the bar.
I said I'd put her in a taxi... so we had one more beer and left, I walked her to the taxi rank and she hooked my arm and walked us past it.
So I walked her to my place which was close by.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bro,str8-2-BONEzone said:i had another weekend with lots of tail lol but not 3in1nite this timebut thats cool i gotta take it kinda easy :yawn: just had a babe friday and saturday then meeting a booty call later 2nite its be hot sex w this babe shes a dawg in the sack if u no what i meen :box: :rockon:
i got this booty call hb8 by showing my ALPHA WARIOR then take her to the gun show :yes: :yes: thats how u pick up hb8s i am also a mentor 4 many pals u gota make the move from just alpha to alpha warior then u can have no hard time EVER 2 get hb8s and laff at the beta chump loosers :kick:
I know that feel bro. I went through a Tinder phase earlier this year that left me feeling empty and odd. I just realized that I didnt really like the quick hooking up with chicks I didnt know well nor had any sort of feeling for. But still I dont like the idea of being in a bf/gf committed relationship because of all the bad sh!t people can do and usually do.In2theGame said:I have a bunch of field reports but then it would look like im bragging if I wrote them. Last weekend i picked up 4 girls, 2 girls picked me up in the subway, I had 2 ONS and 2 other chick that im seeing that i also fvcked. I kinda got to the point where my c0ck was sore and i didnt even want to smell another vag for a bit. As for this weekend, I hooked up with one of my main girls (shes trying to get me to be her boyfriend, im thinking about it though) and I also tried getting one of my ex GF i dated last year out again but that fell through and tonight im headed out again with some friends to chill out as i think tomorrow is going to rain. I have 3 girls i can also call to hang out with and bring along but i dunno if i should yet. All this stuff sounds great and feels great at the time, however, its exhausting and at the end of it.... I feel kind of empty inside, thats why im considering having my main girl as my official girlfriend. On the other hand, i know a bunch of guys that are depressed because they found out their girlfriend or Wives have been screwing around on them or making their lives miserable and makes me wonder..... Would i rather be depressed in an emotional roller coaster or feel empty for a bit.......
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.