I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do u have to be around her to let her know u become alpha again? Or it works even when u don't know if u will see her again?Attraction for girls and guys are different. A girl can be SUPER into you one sex but in your vibe if you turn needy she can be repulsed but if you become “alpha” again she will be reattached. Happened to me several times. Now I don’t care. Have an abundance mentality.
I think I didn't get signals of dtf n I screwed up just made out with her, when I fondled with her tits she was a bit sad so I thought she probably wasn't ready n I didn't push it for sex n I didn't have a place... N now I do have a place n she's in my class too but jus doesn't hang out with meAround her. Seems like your stuck on one girl, that in and of itself is needy. Get with other girls and you’ll have a level headed perspective
not a good signwhen I fondled with her tits she was a bit sad
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
www.sosuave.net