Josh Davidson
Senior Don Juan
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How many hours a week do you spend on average, trying to improve your game?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many hours a week...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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I listen to game literature while training and while heading to dates
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
Happy to answer this one... Zero.
When you can easily recognise that no amount of 'game' can fix your issues, which is where I'm at,
then it seems fairly pointless filling my time learning it. Tricking my way into someone's underwear
was never my style anyway. I'd need to want to reach the destination first and I'm pretty 'meh' about
the whole sex thing so the motivation is pretty low in any case.
I prefer to put time in on improving my finances, usually for about 60-70 hours a week. It's
not all clocked in arduous shift work though, I have a couple of property deals in progress too
and a tenant eviction underway all of which require a fair bit of time doing admin when I'm not
at work. There's a lot of money for me tied up in those properties. This should be a priority for
me way beyond trying to convince the girls at work to sleep with me.
When you can easily recognise that no amount of 'game' can fix your issues, which is where I'm at,
then it seems fairly pointless filling my time learning it. Tricking my way into someone's underwear
was never my style anyway. I'd need to want to reach the destination first and I'm pretty 'meh' about
the whole sex thing so the motivation is pretty low in any case.
I prefer to put time in on improving my finances, usually for about 60-70 hours a week. It's
not all clocked in arduous shift work though, I have a couple of property deals in progress too
and a tenant eviction underway all of which require a fair bit of time doing admin when I'm not
at work. There's a lot of money for me tied up in those properties. This should be a priority for
me way beyond trying to convince the girls at work to sleep with me.
Mister_Skinny_Jeanz
Master Don Juan
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the ass in the beginning of that video was insane
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Georgepithyou
Banned
Never bothered going to some pua bootcamp or even reading a game book besides one from Rollo tomassi.
I work out, earn money and enjoy my life. I don't think any man needs suoer advanced pua techniques to get good quality women
I work out, earn money and enjoy my life. I don't think any man needs suoer advanced pua techniques to get good quality women