"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Josh Davidson

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How many hours a week do you spend on average, trying to improve your game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lost_blackbird

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Happy to answer this one... Zero.
When you can easily recognise that no amount of 'game' can fix your issues, which is where I'm at,
then it seems fairly pointless filling my time learning it. Tricking my way into someone's underwear
was never my style anyway. I'd need to want to reach the destination first and I'm pretty 'meh' about
the whole sex thing so the motivation is pretty low in any case.

I prefer to put time in on improving my finances, usually for about 60-70 hours a week. It's
not all clocked in arduous shift work though, I have a couple of property deals in progress too
and a tenant eviction underway all of which require a fair bit of time doing admin when I'm not
at work. There's a lot of money for me tied up in those properties. This should be a priority for
me way beyond trying to convince the girls at work to sleep with me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Georgepithyou

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Never bothered going to some pua bootcamp or even reading a game book besides one from Rollo tomassi.

I work out, earn money and enjoy my life. I don't think any man needs suoer advanced pua techniques to get good quality women
 
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