"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many here live in Germany?

Lookatu

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I was wondering with Germany having had legal prostitution since 2002 and it bringing in 15 billion euros and consisting of over 400k+ registered sex workers, I'm wondering how dating differs there vs other places without legal prostitution like in the US.

I mean if the male thirst for sex can be satisfied in various ways like prostitution, I wonder if the majority of the guys using dating apps there are looking for more than sex(a relationship) since they can pretty much get sex anywhere(requiring $ of course). Are a lot of these guys looking for something more meaningful like a possible relationship? I know there will be some amount of guys, whether being cheap or going for the challenge to just smash and increase their notch count though.

This also brings up other things like guys in LTR's or relationships. Do the women treat guys better because they know the guys can always go and get sex anytime from others? Do the women make a stronger effort in their relationships?

Also with the reduced male thirst in those countries, are gals getting less bombarded by thirsty males on OLD and therefore feel less entitled and have better attitudes?

Just some things I think about sometimes while driving, $hitting, taking a shower, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Living in Germany, never paid for s3x tho, neither do I know anyone here who has, so can't say
 
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