"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many here live in Germany?

Lookatu

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I was wondering with Germany having had legal prostitution since 2002 and it bringing in 15 billion euros and consisting of over 400k+ registered sex workers, I'm wondering how dating differs there vs other places without legal prostitution like in the US.

I mean if the male thirst for sex can be satisfied in various ways like prostitution, I wonder if the majority of the guys using dating apps there are looking for more than sex(a relationship) since they can pretty much get sex anywhere(requiring $ of course). Are a lot of these guys looking for something more meaningful like a possible relationship? I know there will be some amount of guys, whether being cheap or going for the challenge to just smash and increase their notch count though.

This also brings up other things like guys in LTR's or relationships. Do the women treat guys better because they know the guys can always go and get sex anytime from others? Do the women make a stronger effort in their relationships?

Also with the reduced male thirst in those countries, are gals getting less bombarded by thirsty males on OLD and therefore feel less entitled and have better attitudes?

Just some things I think about sometimes while driving, $hitting, taking a shower, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Living in Germany, never paid for s3x tho, neither do I know anyone here who has, so can't say
 
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