"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many here live in Germany?

Lookatu

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I was wondering with Germany having had legal prostitution since 2002 and it bringing in 15 billion euros and consisting of over 400k+ registered sex workers, I'm wondering how dating differs there vs other places without legal prostitution like in the US.

I mean if the male thirst for sex can be satisfied in various ways like prostitution, I wonder if the majority of the guys using dating apps there are looking for more than sex(a relationship) since they can pretty much get sex anywhere(requiring $ of course). Are a lot of these guys looking for something more meaningful like a possible relationship? I know there will be some amount of guys, whether being cheap or going for the challenge to just smash and increase their notch count though.

This also brings up other things like guys in LTR's or relationships. Do the women treat guys better because they know the guys can always go and get sex anytime from others? Do the women make a stronger effort in their relationships?

Also with the reduced male thirst in those countries, are gals getting less bombarded by thirsty males on OLD and therefore feel less entitled and have better attitudes?

Just some things I think about sometimes while driving, $hitting, taking a shower, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Living in Germany, never paid for s3x tho, neither do I know anyone here who has, so can't say
 
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