"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many guys could forgive if?

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Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

All of the above happens to you.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would never forgive an affair. I have too much self respect. If I took someone back after cheating it says "it's ok to walk all over me and put my health at risk." I would not get revenge, I would just cut myself off and leave.
If someone said they wanted to be with someone else...and they were in love? But they had not actually cheated? Talk about couples therapy. There are loads of attractive people in this world but when you say, "I do", you made a commitment. Gotta learn to get over the passing fancy of some pretty young thing. I would be hurt and pissed but I would be willing to try to work through it.

If I didn't get sex (and I am assuming no other affection...no kisses or hugs) and there isn't a serious injury or medication side effect causing it, same thing. Couples counseling. When you make that commitment, you need to make every effort to work through it. Communicate and be honest.
 
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No chance.

If a man or women takes someone back after such an appalling behaviour then they deserve everything they get as far as I'm concerned.
 
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1. No
2. No
3. No
4. If there was a good reason (medical or something like that).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mikey2012 said:
Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?
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Buddy...Im saying this on behalf of the So Suave community... as nismo-4 would say "your princess is in another castle" She has compleltly disprespected you... in this case...even if you love her...she doesnt really love you...Actions speak louder then words....please never speak to this person ever again...

Keep spinning Boyz,
J0504S
 
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Only a beta who loves abuse and has no self-confidence at all would take back such a skank.

There are over 3.5 billion women in the world. Why let ONE woman sh!t all over you? Taking her back is the same as approving of her behavior. You are telling her indirectly that this behavior is acceptable and will be tolerated in the future.

How can any woman respect such a man? She will only up the ante and behave WORSE the next time.

Remember --> Once a woman's behavior slips.. it only gets worse NOT better. She will do what she can get away with.

Men need to understand that some relationships have a shorter shelf life than others. Men are too loyal for their own good and women take full advantage of this.
 
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There's nothing on this great earth that should make any person take back someone after doing any of those things. If you do, then you're a lost soul.

It's over buddy.
 
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mikey2012 said:
Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?
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Who cares about 2 and 3, its all words. If she loves him and sleeps with you that's all that matters.

Girls don't care about love and honesty and all that crap. You think she would stay with you and love you and take care of you if you got in a car accident and were in a wheelchair for the next 20 years? Girls care about right now, they want everything in the present. They can't see or think more than 2 steps in front of them. That's why they are so good at knocking down a guys ego.

Unless she is a solid religious girl who is deeply deeply rooted in family values, all girls want to be a housewife of Beverly Hills.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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those are 3 absolutely ridiculously obvious deal breakers

the 4th one isn't if she has a good reason(which in this case she doesn't)

even a modicum of self-respect would let you not tolerate more than ONE of these let alone all 4
 
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mikey2012 said:
No joke. This guy accepted her back after all that
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''This guy'' is a wimp. He probably imagines that it's the only piece of a$$ he can get...

You are better of not getting laid than accepting this, (although ''this guy'' is already not getting laid even with his significant other with him)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cremasta said:
1. No
2. No
3. No
4. If there was a good reason (medical or something like that).
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Same answers I'd give.
 
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