How many guys could forgive if?

[mikey2012]

Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

All of the above happens to you.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?

 

[Mr Wright]

No. The end.

 

[pinkfl]

I would never forgive an affair. I have too much self respect. If I took someone back after cheating it says "it's ok to walk all over me and put my health at risk." I would not get revenge, I would just cut myself off and leave.
If someone said they wanted to be with someone else...and they were in love? But they had not actually cheated? Talk about couples therapy. There are loads of attractive people in this world but when you say, "I do", you made a commitment. Gotta learn to get over the passing fancy of some pretty young thing. I would be hurt and pissed but I would be willing to try to work through it.

If I didn't get sex (and I am assuming no other affection...no kisses or hugs) and there isn't a serious injury or medication side effect causing it, same thing. Couples counseling. When you make that commitment, you need to make every effort to work through it. Communicate and be honest.

 

[FortunateSon]

No chance.

If a man or women takes someone back after such an appalling behaviour then they deserve everything they get as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Cremasta]

1. No
2. No
3. No
4. If there was a good reason (medical or something like that).

 

[j0504s]

Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?

Buddy...Im saying this on behalf of the So Suave community... as nismo-4 would say "your princess is in another castle" She has compleltly disprespected you... in this case...even if you love her...she doesnt really love you...Actions speak louder then words....please never speak to this person ever again...

Keep spinning Boyz,
J0504S

 

[PlayHer Man]

Only a beta who loves abuse and has no self-confidence at all would take back such a skank.

There are over 3.5 billion women in the world. Why let ONE woman sh!t all over you? Taking her back is the same as approving of her behavior. You are telling her indirectly that this behavior is acceptable and will be tolerated in the future.

How can any woman respect such a man? She will only up the ante and behave WORSE the next time.

Remember --> Once a woman's behavior slips.. it only gets worse NOT better. She will do what she can get away with.

Men need to understand that some relationships have a shorter shelf life than others. Men are too loyal for their own good and women take full advantage of this.

 

[5string]

Over.

Light the fuse on her tampon and walk away.

 

[Dance]

There's nothing on this great earth that should make any person take back someone after doing any of those things. If you do, then you're a lost soul.

It's over buddy.

 

[Trump]

Wife or gf.

1. Has affair with some dude for 6 months .
2. She says she doesn't love you
3. She tells you she loves some other dude
4. Doesn't have sex with you for 6 months.

Even if you are married would you take her back??? Are there any circumstances would you take her back ? Or is it done deal?

Maybe some guys would argue if I loved her so much I would take her back. Is this a valid reason? Would you give her one more chance and work things out?

Who cares about 2 and 3, its all words. If she loves him and sleeps with you that's all that matters.

Girls don't care about love and honesty and all that crap. You think she would stay with you and love you and take care of you if you got in a car accident and were in a wheelchair for the next 20 years? Girls care about right now, they want everything in the present. They can't see or think more than 2 steps in front of them. That's why they are so good at knocking down a guys ego.

Unless she is a solid religious girl who is deeply deeply rooted in family values, all girls want to be a housewife of Beverly Hills.

 

[mikey2012]

Sorry all of the above happens. 1.2.3.4.

 

[Big Nuts]

Is this a joke?

 

[devilkingx2]

those are 3 absolutely ridiculously obvious deal breakers

the 4th one isn't if she has a good reason(which in this case she doesn't)

even a modicum of self-respect would let you not tolerate more than ONE of these let alone all 4

 

[mikey2012]

Is this a joke?

No joke. This guy accepted her back after all that

 

[badboyjmm]

No joke. This guy accepted her back after all that

''This guy'' is a wimp. He probably imagines that it's the only piece of a$$ he can get...

You are better of not getting laid than accepting this, (although ''this guy'' is already not getting laid even with his significant other with him)

 

[like2jam]

O V E R

 

[Duce]

1. No
2. No
3. No
4. If there was a good reason (medical or something like that).

Same answers I'd give.