Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
God.. its gonna take 2-3 weeks until I have energy?!? lol :nervous:KarmaSutra said:Low carb is 20 grams or lower per 24 hour period. This will put your body into ketosis and begin using stored fat as your primary fuel source.
It will be hard brother, no doubt about it, you'll be easily irritated and jittery but after 2-3 weeks you'll have so much energy you won't know why you've waited so long.
The trick is to watch for hidden carbs in everything. Soda, "sugar free" candy (which is not "free" at all and contains maltitol which if you eat more than a couple of pieces will give you the sh!ts like no tomorrow), and fruit.
Start a journal brother. That's your first step. Be honest. Start with where you are and where you want to be in 90 days.
We've got your back.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.