Groverz
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I tend to do it a lot, sometimes I have luck sometimes I don't. I would rather go with a friend but my options are limited. What do you girls think about guys who go out solo?
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How many go clubbing solo?
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Usually it's a sign of lack of friends or have low social status. But nothing is definite heck if I'd be in new city i'd probably go solo too. The question ultimately comes down to are you comfortable going solo? If so who cares so long you have a catch.
If I'm going somewhere with friends it's to spend time with them. But for me, if I want to meet girls going solo is 100% the way to go. It's only 'weird' if you feel like it's weird--but wingmen, friends, etc., are a crutch. In fact, I'd say the single highest indicator of social status is the abilitiy walk into a new environment without having to rely on the security of a preexisting social circle.
When you're by yourself you can set the tone of all your interactions. You can move when you want to move. It's easier to isolate girls. Logistics are easier. And if a girl is in a group you're more likely to be invited along to the next venue or for post-club food, etc. There are fewer potential witnesses if a girl is afraid of being judged. Plus it's just fun to know that if you have no (particularly good) options on a Saturday night you can generate new options on your own.
When you're by yourself you can set the tone of all your interactions. You can move when you want to move. It's easier to isolate girls. Logistics are easier. And if a girl is in a group you're more likely to be invited along to the next venue or for post-club food, etc. There are fewer potential witnesses if a girl is afraid of being judged. Plus it's just fun to know that if you have no (particularly good) options on a Saturday night you can generate new options on your own.