"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many go clubbing solo?

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Groverz

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I tend to do it a lot, sometimes I have luck sometimes I don't. I would rather go with a friend but my options are limited. What do you girls think about guys who go out solo?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Usually it's a sign of lack of friends or have low social status. But nothing is definite heck if I'd be in new city i'd probably go solo too. The question ultimately comes down to are you comfortable going solo? If so who cares so long you have a catch.
 
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If I'm going somewhere with friends it's to spend time with them. But for me, if I want to meet girls going solo is 100% the way to go. It's only 'weird' if you feel like it's weird--but wingmen, friends, etc., are a crutch. In fact, I'd say the single highest indicator of social status is the abilitiy walk into a new environment without having to rely on the security of a preexisting social circle.

When you're by yourself you can set the tone of all your interactions. You can move when you want to move. It's easier to isolate girls. Logistics are easier. And if a girl is in a group you're more likely to be invited along to the next venue or for post-club food, etc. There are fewer potential witnesses if a girl is afraid of being judged. Plus it's just fun to know that if you have no (particularly good) options on a Saturday night you can generate new options on your own.
 
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