How many girls...

[wifehunter]

...did it take for you to get fed up and turn from an orbiter to a noob DJ?

For me, it was around 6 or 7 girls ending around 1998, before I cracked mentally.

 

[Mazer]

One woman, my oneitis.

 

[wifehunter]

One woman, my oneitis.

You learn fast!

 

[Roober]

Just one for me... the woman that landed me here, and who would be nothing more than a plate now...

The negative emotions I encountered helped me realize my deepest beliefs of value are my reality

 

[RangerMIke]

For me I think I've always been like this having been raised by what you might call a natural DJ, my grandfather.

Minus a serious lapse in judgement when I got married for 10 years starting in my early 30s... ending in my early 40s. I didn't find this website until I guess 5 years ago when I was helping my nephew with his chick problems when he started at Tulane. I've always been good with women and he asked me for help.. I started giving him advice and he said something like "You sound like advice people give on a website I've seen." And gave me this URL. It's been an amazing experience for me. I always knew what I did worked, but I had no idea WHY what I did worked.

For years people would ask me, "What do you do... How do you do it. You treat women like cr@p and they keep coming back for more?" I honestly did not know... really I didn't. The only advice I could give was to just be yourself and not give a fvck. Which is really bad advice, because if being yourself means you are a pathetic simp... well that's not going to help you, and it really is easy to not give a fvck when all you've ever had is success.

I've always been a VERY driven person, where being successful was almost an obsession... never really happy with just good enough no mater what I cared about almost to the point of selfishness. I had no real idea that THIS is what women find attractive. Sosuave really has helped me understand female nature particularly the DJ Bible, Rational Male and Book of Pook.

 

[Mr Wright]

I would never consider myself an orbiter, I was just never that kind of guy. But to go from what I see as broken parts waiting to be assembled, it probably took 30 girls to get to the point where I didn't have to actively think about. Roughly a further 20 to get good. Now I'm at the point where I'm in control of my sex life, which is what I always wanted from this.

 

[MrJack]

...did it take for you to get fed up and turn from an orbiter to a noob DJ?

For me, it was around 6 or 7 girls ending around 1998, before I cracked mentally.

It took my most recent ex gf 2 years ago who was also bpd with daddy issues to bring me here. I let her in to my life and she slaughtered it and burned the remains. Vowed I’d never let it happen again, and ever since I found this place I have been able to pinpoint all the stupid blue pill things I had done to get myself slaughtered and have actively worked to reverse it.

Still not fully there but slowly making the changes.

 

[The Duke]

It took me 2 girls that I actually went out with who played all sorts of games, and many I talked to in about a 2-3month period. After that it was game on and there was no turning back. I soaked up all the DJ knowledge i could and went to work. There is no woman that will fool me these days. I've had every type there is. I feel like a 25yo chic at times with the power/skills/attractiveness I have as an experienced single guy. I make sure I get the upperhand. If I'm not in that position, and they give me too much drama, I find their replacement. The past several months I've managed to keep 3-4 on deck at all times.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It took me 2 girls that I actually went out with who played all sorts of games, and many I talked to in about a 2-3month period. After that it was game on and there was no turning back. I soaked up all the DJ knowledge i could and went to work. There is no woman that will fool me these days. I've had every type there is. I feel like a 25yo chic at times with the power/skills/attractiveness I have as an experienced single guy. I make sure I get the upperhand. If I'm not in that position, and they give me too much drama, I find their replacement. The past several months I've managed to keep 3-4 on deck at all times.

Okay Neo.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

...did it take for you to get fed up and turn from an orbiter to a noob DJ?

For me, it was around 6 or 7 girls ending around 1998, before I cracked mentally.

I stopped Caring in my rsd nimbus days.