For me I think I've always been like this having been raised by what you might call a natural DJ, my grandfather.
Minus a serious lapse in judgement when I got married for 10 years starting in my early 30s... ending in my early 40s. I didn't find this website until I guess 5 years ago when I was helping my nephew with his chick problems when he started at Tulane. I've always been good with women and he asked me for help.. I started giving him advice and he said something like "You sound like advice people give on a website I've seen." And gave me this URL. It's been an amazing experience for me. I always knew what I did worked, but I had no idea WHY what I did worked.
For years people would ask me, "What do you do... How do you do it. You treat women like cr@p and they keep coming back for more?" I honestly did not know... really I didn't. The only advice I could give was to just be yourself and not give a fvck. Which is really bad advice, because if being yourself means you are a pathetic simp... well that's not going to help you, and it really is easy to not give a fvck when all you've ever had is success.
I've always been a VERY driven person, where being successful was almost an obsession... never really happy with just good enough no mater what I cared about almost to the point of selfishness. I had no real idea that THIS is what women find attractive. Sosuave really has helped me understand female nature particularly the DJ Bible, Rational Male and Book of Pook.