Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How many girls have you slept with this year?

TonyBaloney

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Since January 2012, how many girls have you fvcked?

Dont count in (like Bigneil) hookers and strippers, just normal girls.

My personal tally is 7. Not the best year so far, but summers here, and i'm feeling like a new rack of plates is due in.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2. Got out of a LTR in june, and so i've slept with one girl after that. Random one night stand. I think i slept with about 12 girls one year, but not sure. Out of all the girls i've slept with i'd probably only fvck 50% again. I don't regularly get the quality i want so that's my biggest problem.
 

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2 here as well.

Got out of a LTR in April.

Got some from a "years ago" FBuddy on July 4th.

Out to get another shortly...
 

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\O/ said:
Out of all the girls i've slept with i'd probably only fvck 50% again. I don't regularly get the quality i want so that's my biggest problem.
I'm with you there buddy.

4 of the 7 were complete drunkeness, and im aghast at the thought of their faces ;) Still, it was entertainment on the night.
 

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I have hooked up with more then 20 girls. It has been a good year.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TonyBaloney said:
Since January 2012, how many girls have you fvcked?

Dont count in (like Bigneil) hookers and strippers, just normal girls.

My personal tally is 7. Not the best year so far, but summers here, and i'm feeling like a new rack of plates is due in.
My tally is only 2 but it's only been 6+ months. I was in a relationship with the most beautiful one for 5 of those months. I only counted them when they did it for free. It would be 3 otherwise. And I don't count fat girls like Tony must.

How many relationships has Tony had? Zero? In the past 2 years I had 6 girlfriends (plus 2 strippers who I paid), all 8 were HB7 or better. I don't sleep with a girl unless I want to keep her around, and they normally stay.

Tony, why would you sleep with a different girl every month (or 3 like PrettyBoyAJ has)?? Because they kept dumping you? Or because you didn't choose wisely? Talk about high risk. You can still catch herpes even with a condom.

"I ain't no fool and I don't take what I don't want" - Lennon/McCartney 1965
 

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0 from Jan to June (Moping like a little betch)

6 in the past 2 months

Shot at 7 if I didn't sprain my knee yesterday.

We all have different desires for sex. For me, it's reminds me of myself before I got into a LTR that AFC'ed me hardcore. It's not a contest, like my chump friends think. Last night, I saw 5 guys hitting on 1 chick simultaneously (she was drunk of course). When I was talking to one broad, a dude sits RIGHT next to me and starts chatting up with her friend at the same table...soon his friend comes along and chats her up too. Perfect timing to isolate, wingmen by hindsight, but talk about pusssy inflation!
 

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13...2 of which are still in the rotation.

I was never much for the "it's a numbers game" crowd but...






It's a numbers game bros. I've probably hit on 100+
 

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Just one, my wife, but damned if I haven't been tempted...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I have hooked up with more then 20 girls. It has been a good year.
My man AJ be getting it in...those were the days bro...if I could take my skillz now and match it with my college days, damn....
 

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marmel75 said:
My man AJ be getting it in...those were the days bro...if I could take my skillz now and match it with my college days, damn....
My LTR was in college, a little part dies inside when I am reminded. Thanks.
 

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Dude it's crazy. I hooked up with around 10 girls Jan-April. Then summertime I started going to Atlanta every week. So much more options in Atlanta it's not even funny. I've only hooked up with 2 girls that weren't 7.5+. Those 2 girls had stripper bodies and that was the only reason.

This is my last semester of college EVER. Masters Degree bout to be hanging on my wall. I plan on getting 20 this last semester! All cute chicks though. Don't judge me!
 

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Only 1. Got out of a LTR with the only woman I was in love with in June, and been messed up since. Broke my foot in July, so things haven't been too easy getting around. Though I did go out to the club last weekend and my cast proved to be quite the hot topic of the night. Talked to a few girls but couldn't bring myself to make any moves. I felt guilty for some reason, and I was the one who was broken up with. Gotta change that.
 

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Is this the Quantity over Quality argument?

Didn't you ever see Citizen Kane? It's considered the best movie of all time (not that it's THAT good). But in it some magnate in his old age refers back to a beautiful lady he once sat next to on a train (or something) and never spoke a word to, and he never lived it down. He spent the rest of his life wishing he asked her out.

You want a handful of those girls in your life. You won't have 1 to 3 per month, that's for sure.

I waited 15 years between dream girls, and in the meantime saw 5 countries, 40 states and dated 20 women. They aren't all the same.

But if you can really score 7 to 20 women you are extremely attracted to and are escaping rejection along the way, it's a huge achievement so congrats.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ZERO. For 2011 and 2012. True story.
 

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bigneil said:
I waited 15 years between dream girls, and in the meantime saw 5 countries, 40 states and dated 20 women. They aren't all the same.
If you dont mind me asking Neil, I do remember you once mentioning that you had an ex pass away. Please do not get offended, I am only asking through interest and sympathy, but did that cause an attachement issue?

I had the love of my life once return to her home country of Norway after she had a couple of family bereavements. Killed me inside and have never really recovered from it.


ZERO. For 2011 and 2012. True story.

Wow NN, Seriously? I thought you would be posting a high number. Why is this? A jealous ex didnt give you a castration/penectomy? ;)
 

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2 this year, but I got into an LTR at the beginning of feb. And the other girl was in jan before that.
 

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1. I met her on fling.com. Would not hit it again but she gave me a better bj than I ever thought was possible.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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