"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How many girls do you juggle at once?

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I like to do 5-6... Any more, it gets kinda time consuming.. I only add 3-4 new girls to the rotation every few weeks or so just incase one of my girls starts to drift..

I feel like a shepherd herding all these chicks

What I mean about juggling is working on girls you picked up or have as FWB's (Friends With Benefits) ... however gotta keep them going... gotta keep it hot...

ESPECIALLY, when you're like me and go for 8/10's or better.. YOu know damn well some of these chicks have multiple FWB's.. Juggling them is not as easy as you may think... Girls do feel neglected after a while and try to look for other options.. Gotta maintain a good balance
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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6 plates here... they all have jobs, and work at places I frequent. Most times, I just say hi, or have a quick conversation. But, sometimes they rollup on me when I least expect it. Fun times!

I have a bit of oneitis for one... she's amazing. Walked away weeks ago, to get my head on straight, may be talking to her soon. She's chasing.
 

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3 to 4. Don't have time for more, but all 7s or better. My main chick almost a 9, I need the other 3 plates just to keep oneitis at bay. Like a dormant disease it lurks latent in my psyche.
 
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Good to hear. And yeah i hear ya its much easier handling 3-4. Some of these chicks u cant help but feel odd when theres a good gap of time between contact.

I, like @wifehunter, have a bit of a deeper thing with one of my chicks than the rest though but recently shes been reeling back a bit. Told me she thinks im playing mind games with her. Might of played with her emotions too much. She went a whole day without messaging me today... I was surprised.
 

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Good to hear. And yeah i hear ya its much easier handling 3-4. Some of these chicks u cant help but feel odd when theres a good gap of time between contact.

I, like @wifehunter, have a bit of a deeper thing with one of my chicks than the rest though but recently shes been reeling back a bit. Told me she thinks im playing mind games with her. Might of played with her emotions too much. She went a whole day without messaging me today... I was surprised.
I have a main chick too bud. The best way to keep it fresh is to spin plates.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when im peaking in my game then 4

anything more than that and i find it hard to keep track of the lies im telling them
 

Harry Wilmington

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The most plates I ever had at one time - like, where I was legitimately hooking up with each of them on different days - was 3. One might drop off and then another would take her place, but 3 was just enough to always have someone to hook up with, yet small enough so I wasn't blowing a whole bunch of money.

However, I think what's more important is being able to emulate how you are when you have multiple girls, and then be able to continue in that way even if you have zero or one girl. Like, when you have multiple choices you are less needy and more confident because you know if one walks away you still have more in your pocket.

You need to be able to act and be that same way when you're legit single because women can smell desperation and the non-confident aroma of men who are trying too hard. You can be single and still be giving off those traits that make women want you - heck, it may even have them thinking the reasons you're single is because YOU did the dumping of your last chick (i.e. the choosing), even if that's not the case!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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