"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

How many girls do you juggle at once?

Joined
Jan 18, 2016
Messages
199
Reaction score
91
Age
34
I like to do 5-6... Any more, it gets kinda time consuming.. I only add 3-4 new girls to the rotation every few weeks or so just incase one of my girls starts to drift..

I feel like a shepherd herding all these chicks

What I mean about juggling is working on girls you picked up or have as FWB's (Friends With Benefits) ... however gotta keep them going... gotta keep it hot...

ESPECIALLY, when you're like me and go for 8/10's or better.. YOu know damn well some of these chicks have multiple FWB's.. Juggling them is not as easy as you may think... Girls do feel neglected after a while and try to look for other options.. Gotta maintain a good balance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
6 plates here... they all have jobs, and work at places I frequent. Most times, I just say hi, or have a quick conversation. But, sometimes they rollup on me when I least expect it. Fun times!

I have a bit of oneitis for one... she's amazing. Walked away weeks ago, to get my head on straight, may be talking to her soon. She's chasing.
 

AllDay85

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2014
Messages
220
Reaction score
84
Location
Midwest United States
3 to 4. Don't have time for more, but all 7s or better. My main chick almost a 9, I need the other 3 plates just to keep oneitis at bay. Like a dormant disease it lurks latent in my psyche.
 
Joined
Jan 18, 2016
Messages
199
Reaction score
91
Age
34
Good to hear. And yeah i hear ya its much easier handling 3-4. Some of these chicks u cant help but feel odd when theres a good gap of time between contact.

I, like @wifehunter, have a bit of a deeper thing with one of my chicks than the rest though but recently shes been reeling back a bit. Told me she thinks im playing mind games with her. Might of played with her emotions too much. She went a whole day without messaging me today... I was surprised.
 

AllDay85

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2014
Messages
220
Reaction score
84
Location
Midwest United States
Good to hear. And yeah i hear ya its much easier handling 3-4. Some of these chicks u cant help but feel odd when theres a good gap of time between contact.

I, like @wifehunter, have a bit of a deeper thing with one of my chicks than the rest though but recently shes been reeling back a bit. Told me she thinks im playing mind games with her. Might of played with her emotions too much. She went a whole day without messaging me today... I was surprised.
I have a main chick too bud. The best way to keep it fresh is to spin plates.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2014
Messages
3,639
Reaction score
4,367
Location
uk
when im peaking in my game then 4

anything more than that and i find it hard to keep track of the lies im telling them
 

Harry Wilmington

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2012
Messages
1,196
Reaction score
204
The most plates I ever had at one time - like, where I was legitimately hooking up with each of them on different days - was 3. One might drop off and then another would take her place, but 3 was just enough to always have someone to hook up with, yet small enough so I wasn't blowing a whole bunch of money.

However, I think what's more important is being able to emulate how you are when you have multiple girls, and then be able to continue in that way even if you have zero or one girl. Like, when you have multiple choices you are less needy and more confident because you know if one walks away you still have more in your pocket.

You need to be able to act and be that same way when you're legit single because women can smell desperation and the non-confident aroma of men who are trying too hard. You can be single and still be giving off those traits that make women want you - heck, it may even have them thinking the reasons you're single is because YOU did the dumping of your last chick (i.e. the choosing), even if that's not the case!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top