"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how many gals has an AFC screwed?

TheFlyingMan

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I read somewhere an average guy has 6 women over his entire life...say a 24 year old AFC, how many gals would he have had to be considered an AFC? 1 or 2?

I remember getting a couple of one night stands as an AFC and I was considered a god amongst my other AFC friends. Sad days....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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2c2bt

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I probably get screwed once a year by some third rate looking girl.
 

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An AFC may have one opportunity in a year to have sex where as a DJ may have two hundred opportunities and wish not to engage in sex with any of those girls.

It isn't always the guys who have the most opportunities to have sex with a lot of woman that always take them.

Many guys who attract a lot of hot babes may spend most of there time at home alone drinking beer like I do and once every couple of months when they desire to be in a hot babes company they will hit the bars to get one, so you can't really keep tabs on it. :yes:
 

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My bro is 24.....Hes had sex with 1 girl in his life....Is he afc?

I can tell you.

NO WAY. My bro can be a right Don Juan if he wants...so why so little sex?

Well let me give you a clue.

5 Year LTR and about to get married. His catch is good too.

You cant judge an AFC from numbers......I have a mate who is the biggest AFC in the world....seriouslly we watch him in start up relationships and i roll on the floor laughing at his inablity to pull....He has slept with 2 girls this year and hes seeing another....

All these girls were absoulte flukes.....

You cant judge on the girls you have had.
Simple as that.

Sarge on!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i used to act bigtiem AFC but the #s DO LIE, as in the 2 years that ive dated from ages 18 - 20 when i acted AFC, id kissed about 100 girls and fvkced about 35 - 40......still kinda confused about that.....now that im more suave, i have pretty much the same success....about 15 girls in gthe last year
 

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skip2mylou781 - I hope your lying about your numbers because if you aren't, I'm away to put my head in an oven.
 

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Quality is far more important in a DJ's eyes than quantity. That is what being a DJ is about.
As an AFC, I can screw any tons of girls I want, but they are not the really quality hot girls that we as DJs deserves.
But I think I should just go for them low qual girls anyway in order to develop the experience, and probably make friends that will lead me to better girls. Yes?
 

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yes skip2mylou your thread inspired me to this thread hehehe. Because I was an AFC and I got a few one night stands with some quality chicks, 8+. Flukey, but I did everything right and I am better then average looking (not handsome but higher then 5 at least).
 

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d99 im not lying, so go do wat u said ull do....im enough of a loser to count all the girls i been with czu i just like doing that
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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