"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how many gals has an AFC screwed?

TheFlyingMan

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I read somewhere an average guy has 6 women over his entire life...say a 24 year old AFC, how many gals would he have had to be considered an AFC? 1 or 2?

I remember getting a couple of one night stands as an AFC and I was considered a god amongst my other AFC friends. Sad days....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2c2bt

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I probably get screwed once a year by some third rate looking girl.
 

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An AFC may have one opportunity in a year to have sex where as a DJ may have two hundred opportunities and wish not to engage in sex with any of those girls.

It isn't always the guys who have the most opportunities to have sex with a lot of woman that always take them.

Many guys who attract a lot of hot babes may spend most of there time at home alone drinking beer like I do and once every couple of months when they desire to be in a hot babes company they will hit the bars to get one, so you can't really keep tabs on it. :yes:
 

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My bro is 24.....Hes had sex with 1 girl in his life....Is he afc?

I can tell you.

NO WAY. My bro can be a right Don Juan if he wants...so why so little sex?

Well let me give you a clue.

5 Year LTR and about to get married. His catch is good too.

You cant judge an AFC from numbers......I have a mate who is the biggest AFC in the world....seriouslly we watch him in start up relationships and i roll on the floor laughing at his inablity to pull....He has slept with 2 girls this year and hes seeing another....

All these girls were absoulte flukes.....

You cant judge on the girls you have had.
Simple as that.

Sarge on!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skip2mylou781

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i used to act bigtiem AFC but the #s DO LIE, as in the 2 years that ive dated from ages 18 - 20 when i acted AFC, id kissed about 100 girls and fvkced about 35 - 40......still kinda confused about that.....now that im more suave, i have pretty much the same success....about 15 girls in gthe last year
 

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skip2mylou781 - I hope your lying about your numbers because if you aren't, I'm away to put my head in an oven.
 

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Quality is far more important in a DJ's eyes than quantity. That is what being a DJ is about.
As an AFC, I can screw any tons of girls I want, but they are not the really quality hot girls that we as DJs deserves.
But I think I should just go for them low qual girls anyway in order to develop the experience, and probably make friends that will lead me to better girls. Yes?
 

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yes skip2mylou your thread inspired me to this thread hehehe. Because I was an AFC and I got a few one night stands with some quality chicks, 8+. Flukey, but I did everything right and I am better then average looking (not handsome but higher then 5 at least).
 

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d99 im not lying, so go do wat u said ull do....im enough of a loser to count all the girls i been with czu i just like doing that
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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