"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I read somewhere an average guy has 6 women over his entire life...say a 24 year old AFC, how many gals would he have had to be considered an AFC? 1 or 2?

I remember getting a couple of one night stands as an AFC and I was considered a god amongst my other AFC friends. Sad days....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I probably get screwed once a year by some third rate looking girl.
 
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An AFC may have one opportunity in a year to have sex where as a DJ may have two hundred opportunities and wish not to engage in sex with any of those girls.

It isn't always the guys who have the most opportunities to have sex with a lot of woman that always take them.

Many guys who attract a lot of hot babes may spend most of there time at home alone drinking beer like I do and once every couple of months when they desire to be in a hot babes company they will hit the bars to get one, so you can't really keep tabs on it. :yes:
 
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My bro is 24.....Hes had sex with 1 girl in his life....Is he afc?

I can tell you.

NO WAY. My bro can be a right Don Juan if he wants...so why so little sex?

Well let me give you a clue.

5 Year LTR and about to get married. His catch is good too.

You cant judge an AFC from numbers......I have a mate who is the biggest AFC in the world....seriouslly we watch him in start up relationships and i roll on the floor laughing at his inablity to pull....He has slept with 2 girls this year and hes seeing another....

All these girls were absoulte flukes.....

You cant judge on the girls you have had.
Simple as that.

Sarge on!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i used to act bigtiem AFC but the #s DO LIE, as in the 2 years that ive dated from ages 18 - 20 when i acted AFC, id kissed about 100 girls and fvkced about 35 - 40......still kinda confused about that.....now that im more suave, i have pretty much the same success....about 15 girls in gthe last year
 
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skip2mylou781 - I hope your lying about your numbers because if you aren't, I'm away to put my head in an oven.
 
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Quality is far more important in a DJ's eyes than quantity. That is what being a DJ is about.
As an AFC, I can screw any tons of girls I want, but they are not the really quality hot girls that we as DJs deserves.
But I think I should just go for them low qual girls anyway in order to develop the experience, and probably make friends that will lead me to better girls. Yes?
 
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yes skip2mylou your thread inspired me to this thread hehehe. Because I was an AFC and I got a few one night stands with some quality chicks, 8+. Flukey, but I did everything right and I am better then average looking (not handsome but higher then 5 at least).
 
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d99 im not lying, so go do wat u said ull do....im enough of a loser to count all the girls i been with czu i just like doing that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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