"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How many friends do you have? How many girlfriends have you had?

How many friends have you made this year? How many girlfriends?

  • 50+ friends/50+ girlfriends

    Votes: 3 7.5%

  • 25+friends/25+ girlfriends

    Votes: 1 2.5%

  • 10+ friends/10+girlfriends

    Votes: 11 27.5%

  • Others

    Votes: 25 62.5%
  • Total voters
    40
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This is a survey i want everyone to take. Give your honest answer, this won't be public.

before you really take this vote, do this for me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You might want to define friends more closely. Also, you might want to seperate girlfriends from friends. I personally have had no girlfriends, but I have had a number of friends.
 
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so I'm guessing that more then half of us (so far) have had under 10 friends, and under 10 gf. So the truth comes out.:D
 
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How many girlfriends one has made THIS YEAR???
It's been not even 5 months since the year has started, so if anyone had, say, 10+ girlfriends during this time -- which is the minimum option in your poll -- that would mean that they had a new gf each 2 weeks, AT LEAST. Do u see the problem ?

Let's not confuse girlfriends with dates, or with girls we might have slept with...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
this thread is a useless waste of time..and should be closed
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I disagree, though I think the question could have been worded more effectively. After all, how many aren't curious how they measure up in the partner count?
 
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I have had 3 girl friends. Not much into having many girl firends I like to try to stick to one, but guess I get hit with the nice guy curse too often. As for friends, not that many. Most of my friends from school/college are all off doing something and I have lost touch. Only friends I still have left are mostly underage but still fun to chill with. Currently only one is still here the rest are away at college.

IE: I get bored a ton, I have way to much damn free time.

Soo anyone in the Rochester area that is bored look me up!
 
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I have many aquantainces, but few friends. I don't use the word friend lightly. Friends are only a short step below family and principle.

I have never had a girlfriend. And every relationship I've seen so far make me very content with that. Yay for meaningless sex!
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
this thread is a useless waste of time..and should be closed
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i feel slapping the **** out of you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Because he pointed out how your thread was poorly worded and poorly set up?
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that's what YOU think
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
this thread is a useless waste of time..and should be closed
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Agreed.
 
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