"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How many eggs daily can be eaten safely in the long term?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wild caught Alaskan Salmon. Skin on.

Salmon with the skin on is one of the most amazing things I have ever eaten in my life...it literally melts in your mouth and the flavor is unbelievably amazing.
I like salmon a lot, except for Keta Salmon. That one is just mediocre. I like Sockeye, Pink, Coho, and all the Trout species. Haven’t tried Alaskan Wild. Where do you get them?
 

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I eat six eggs almost every other day, three in the morning and three in the afternoon.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Keep doing it and let me know how that works out for you. I'm going to bet not real well at some point.

You are destroying your gut microbiome diversity one day at a time.
I see the points your making but I don't think it's this simple. We still barely understand anything about the gut microbiome, in terms of what's "optimal" and it probably varies wildly depending on the individual.

I don't know if I buy the idea that we need to eat a super large variety of different foods. How do you explain people who go on a carnivore diet and seemingly cure all their GI and immune problems?
 

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I see the points your making but I don't think it's this simple. We still barely understand anything about the gut microbiome, in terms of what's "optimal" and it probably varies wildly depending on the individual.

I don't know if I buy the idea that we need to eat a super large variety of different foods. How do you explain people who go on a carnivore diet and seemingly cure all their GI and immune problems?
They have greatly increased their understanding of it over the last decade and have found repeatedly that diversity is a key component...which is created by eating a wide variety of foods...

That's simple, and I've talked about it many times. There are foods that are considered "healthy" that don't work with individual people's body chemistry and cause low grade chronic inflammation and reactivity. Some of the foods that are almost always considered "healthy" are high on this list and include concentrated dairy(whey, Greek yogurt, etc), salmon and even oatmeal.

If people eat those foods regularly and they cause inflammation, it's no wonder if they stop eating them it helps their issues go away.

But that doesn't mean they should stop eating all other foods, they simply need to do more to understand what works with their body and what doesn't.
 

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I don't know if I buy the idea that we need to eat a super large variety of different foods. How do you explain people who go on a carnivore diet and seemingly cure all their GI and immune problems?
Carnivore diet is just an extreme elimination diet. They clearly eliminated the problem foods. That doesn’t mean carnivore or any extreme elimination diet is good.

Hi Lily,
What are your Cholesterol levels like?
Astronomical.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I will eat 4 eggs if I am having something with them like bacon and 5-6 if they are all i am having. I don’t do any toast or bread. I actually prefer hard boiled eggs. They seem more filling.
 

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I wouldnt mind eating 6 eggs daily every morning.
i legit ate 14 eggs today alone like nothing. I usually eat 8 eggs a day sometimes more sometimes less. The choloestrol myth is just a myth. Eat as may eggs as you possibly can they are the number one protein source.
 

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i legit ate 14 eggs today alone like nothing. I usually eat 8 eggs a day sometimes more sometimes less. The choloestrol myth is just a myth. Eat as may eggs as you possibly can they are the number one protein source.
If you mean serum cholesterol- lifetime exposure to LDL particles (also measured as Apo-B) has been proven to cause CVD. This is not a myth.

If you mean dietary cholesterol, it has only a modest to small effect on serum cholesterol in most people.

Theres likely no harm in eating a couple eggs per day for most people. However, it is prudent to track your serum cholesterol to see how your body responds to it.
 

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I wouldnt mind eating 6 eggs daily every morning.
I am limiting myself to one whole egg and one egg white a day.
Reason being daily recommendation of cholesterol intake for men is 300 mg or 200 mg if you are at risk of heart disease. Since one large egg consists of about 186 mg of cholesterol (all in a single yolk), one or max two eggs should be safe, I think.
 

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i legit ate 14 eggs today alone like nothing. I usually eat 8 eggs a day sometimes more sometimes less. The choloestrol myth is just a myth. Eat as may eggs as you possibly can they are the number one protein source.
Not true about cholesterol myth. You are still below 30. Once you cross 30, that many egg yolks should not be consumed at all. I am an example of how cholesterol level goes down dramatically after limiting egg yolk consumption. Egg whites are fine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not true about cholesterol myth. You are still below 30. Once you cross 30, that many egg yolks should not be consumed at all. I am an example of how cholesterol level goes down dramatically after limiting egg yolk consumption. Egg whites are fine.
The answer is it depends. Most people it will do little to nothing. Some people it will. Same with many things.
 

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Hi Paradiddle,
I have the same egg policy as you....I eat 3 or 4 Yolks a week,maybe
12-18 Whites....Reduced my Cholesterol from 6.9 to 4.3....My doctor asked me how I did it,tried it herself and thanked me,it worked for her too....Yet as BackInTheGame suggests it doesn't work for all....Youngest Daughter tried and only had a slight drop in her levels....I think the same applies for prescription drugs like Statin.
 

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The answer is it depends. Most people it will do little to nothing. Some people it will. Same with many things.
Yes. Genetics are crazy. Some people eggs have no effect whatsoever. Some people it will go up a lot.

Bottom line - get your cholesterol checked before and after adding more than about 1 egg (the daily value) per day into the diet.
 

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Yes, it all depends on what you are making. I have seen my friend using about 8 to 10 eggs in making dinner for 2 person.
 

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Yes, it all depends on what you are making. I have seen my friend using about 8 to 10 eggs in making dinner for 2 person.
Hi Bella,
Welcome aboard....I laughed about your friend.....When I was about 16,I raised Chooks,eggs coming out of the Families Ears...After walking home from the movies with two Mates I would regale them with 18 eggs done on the stove top in Mutton dripping,the treat at the end was mopping up the Pan with bread lathered in Butter,Happy Days!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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