"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How many different girls u got wit?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Yes, 55. She blew me while she was on the toilet taking a piss. Strange night.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
not sure what your asking exactly. 3 of them were the first fuk, the other is a girl i've been seeing for almost 2 months. of the 3 that were first fuks one of them lives across the country but i'll end up hitting it again when she visits her family here or if i go visit her(her ass omg), the other i don't want to see again as she is below my standards but i knew it was a for sure thing on a 1st date, the other is the one i was fuking last night and this morning who i like and see an actual relationship developing out of funny thing is it was our second date, first was about a month ago i had written her off but she ended up contacting me a few days ago.cof33 said:
the one for tonight i was trying to line up, i just texted her "lets just meet up some other time" because she was coming from dinner with her friends and at the last minute texts me that her friends are with her. not a good idea to meetup with her and her friends on a first date/meet up with a chick from online.
have a date lined up for tomorrow night with a different chick who i had a first date with about 2 weeks ago. I suggested we do something chill like watch a movie at her place, she agrees. She's kind of chubby but on our first meet up I got her to tell me her fetish which is being tied up and blindfolded so her rating went up 2 notches in my head after she told me that. Going to try to tie her up tomorrow night and snap a pic for sosuave lol.
most of these girls are from online dating not all of them tho.