"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How many different girls u got wit?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Yes, 55. She blew me while she was on the toilet taking a piss. Strange night.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
not sure what your asking exactly. 3 of them were the first fuk, the other is a girl i've been seeing for almost 2 months. of the 3 that were first fuks one of them lives across the country but i'll end up hitting it again when she visits her family here or if i go visit her(her ass omg), the other i don't want to see again as she is below my standards but i knew it was a for sure thing on a 1st date, the other is the one i was fuking last night and this morning who i like and see an actual relationship developing out of funny thing is it was our second date, first was about a month ago i had written her off but she ended up contacting me a few days ago.cof33 said:
the one for tonight i was trying to line up, i just texted her "lets just meet up some other time" because she was coming from dinner with her friends and at the last minute texts me that her friends are with her. not a good idea to meetup with her and her friends on a first date/meet up with a chick from online.
have a date lined up for tomorrow night with a different chick who i had a first date with about 2 weeks ago. I suggested we do something chill like watch a movie at her place, she agrees. She's kind of chubby but on our first meet up I got her to tell me her fetish which is being tied up and blindfolded so her rating went up 2 notches in my head after she told me that. Going to try to tie her up tomorrow night and snap a pic for sosuave lol.
most of these girls are from online dating not all of them tho.