"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How many different girls u got wit?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Yes, 55. She blew me while she was on the toilet taking a piss. Strange night.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
not sure what your asking exactly. 3 of them were the first fuk, the other is a girl i've been seeing for almost 2 months. of the 3 that were first fuks one of them lives across the country but i'll end up hitting it again when she visits her family here or if i go visit her(her ass omg), the other i don't want to see again as she is below my standards but i knew it was a for sure thing on a 1st date, the other is the one i was fuking last night and this morning who i like and see an actual relationship developing out of funny thing is it was our second date, first was about a month ago i had written her off but she ended up contacting me a few days ago.cof33 said:
the one for tonight i was trying to line up, i just texted her "lets just meet up some other time" because she was coming from dinner with her friends and at the last minute texts me that her friends are with her. not a good idea to meetup with her and her friends on a first date/meet up with a chick from online.
have a date lined up for tomorrow night with a different chick who i had a first date with about 2 weeks ago. I suggested we do something chill like watch a movie at her place, she agrees. She's kind of chubby but on our first meet up I got her to tell me her fetish which is being tied up and blindfolded so her rating went up 2 notches in my head after she told me that. Going to try to tie her up tomorrow night and snap a pic for sosuave lol.
most of these girls are from online dating not all of them tho.