Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How many days in a year do you have sex?

How many days a year do you have sex?

  • Zero

    Votes: 3 16.7%
  • 1 to 5

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • 5 to 20

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • 20 to 50

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • 50 to 100

    Votes: 3 16.7%
  • 100 to 200

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Almost daily

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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And are you single?

I'm single but always have a regular or two in the rotation so Im guessing for me 2x a week, sometimes we may do it 3x in a row or more, but the act of getting naked blah blah, 2x a week sometimes more when I'm on a hot streak, or less for whatever reasons... So about 100x a year for me. If I worked less I could pump that up significantly.

Some of my married friends tell me 1 to 5 times a year.... I would kill myself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on how you count one instance of a sexual interaction.

If I were to define it as having sex (not something close to sex but actual sex), then getting dressed and doing something else as the definition of one count (regardless of whether it was a quickie or a 3 hour marathon session), then I would say about 5 times a week is typical for me, but not necessarily 5 days a week or “daily”.

Sometimes I do that in one night and do other things with my time the other 6 days of the week. Sometimes I’ll hit 10 or 15 times over 2 or 3 days in one week. Once in a blue I might have that 0 times week because I want alone time...

Hard to answer the way the question is asked.
Yeah I should have said how many days a year because I'm in the same boat. Won't let me change it now :(
 

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Depends on how you count one instance of a sexual interaction.

If I were to define it as having sex (not something close to sex but actual sex), then getting dressed and doing something else as the definition of one count (regardless of whether it was a quickie or a 3 hour marathon session), then I would say about 5 times a week is typical for me, but not necessarily 5 days a week or “daily”.

Sometimes I do that in one night and do other things with my time the other 6 days of the week. Sometimes I’ll hit 10 or 15 times over 2 or 3 days in one week. Once in a blue I might have that 0 times week because I want alone time...

Hard to answer the way the question is asked.
At your age? You can still get it up that much ehh? Cialis doing the trick I guess...


j/k ;'p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does 'solo sex' count?:)
 

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Does my left hand count? Depends really because my last gf was sex mad, so every day if I saw her, before that it was about once a week, that relationship was more serious and not all about the sex though. Now I prefer to beat meat and talk to girls using xxx chat. Personally casual sex doesn't interest me at all. I mean, I can beat myself off anytime, and it's way less complicated than trying to find somebody to do it with who can make it actually enjoyable for me. I'm way more interested in trying to develop relationships with girls first before I move in on them sexually, I can't enjoy it any other way.
 

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My GF and I now 2-3 per week. When I’m single hitting FWBs normally once every couple of weeks. When I’m single spinning plates probably 4-5 times per week.
 

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Been in a relationship the last 4 years, recently married. About 3 times a week, she wants it just as much as I do, has been like that since the start and still is that way.

Some of my married friends tell me 1 to 5 times a year.... I would kill myself.
I wouldn't kill myself if that was the case but I sure as fvck would divorce. That's just tragic.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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