"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many days in a year do you have sex?

How many days a year do you have sex?

  • Zero

    Votes: 3 16.7%
  • 1 to 5

    Votes: 1 5.6%
  • 5 to 20

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • 20 to 50

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • 50 to 100

    Votes: 3 16.7%
  • 100 to 200

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • Almost daily

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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And are you single?

I'm single but always have a regular or two in the rotation so Im guessing for me 2x a week, sometimes we may do it 3x in a row or more, but the act of getting naked blah blah, 2x a week sometimes more when I'm on a hot streak, or less for whatever reasons... So about 100x a year for me. If I worked less I could pump that up significantly.

Some of my married friends tell me 1 to 5 times a year.... I would kill myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Depends on how you count one instance of a sexual interaction.

If I were to define it as having sex (not something close to sex but actual sex), then getting dressed and doing something else as the definition of one count (regardless of whether it was a quickie or a 3 hour marathon session), then I would say about 5 times a week is typical for me, but not necessarily 5 days a week or “daily”.

Sometimes I do that in one night and do other things with my time the other 6 days of the week. Sometimes I’ll hit 10 or 15 times over 2 or 3 days in one week. Once in a blue I might have that 0 times week because I want alone time...

Hard to answer the way the question is asked.
Yeah I should have said how many days a year because I'm in the same boat. Won't let me change it now :(
 

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Depends on how you count one instance of a sexual interaction.

If I were to define it as having sex (not something close to sex but actual sex), then getting dressed and doing something else as the definition of one count (regardless of whether it was a quickie or a 3 hour marathon session), then I would say about 5 times a week is typical for me, but not necessarily 5 days a week or “daily”.

Sometimes I do that in one night and do other things with my time the other 6 days of the week. Sometimes I’ll hit 10 or 15 times over 2 or 3 days in one week. Once in a blue I might have that 0 times week because I want alone time...

Hard to answer the way the question is asked.
At your age? You can still get it up that much ehh? Cialis doing the trick I guess...


j/k ;'p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Does 'solo sex' count?:)
 

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Does my left hand count? Depends really because my last gf was sex mad, so every day if I saw her, before that it was about once a week, that relationship was more serious and not all about the sex though. Now I prefer to beat meat and talk to girls using xxx chat. Personally casual sex doesn't interest me at all. I mean, I can beat myself off anytime, and it's way less complicated than trying to find somebody to do it with who can make it actually enjoyable for me. I'm way more interested in trying to develop relationships with girls first before I move in on them sexually, I can't enjoy it any other way.
 

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My GF and I now 2-3 per week. When I’m single hitting FWBs normally once every couple of weeks. When I’m single spinning plates probably 4-5 times per week.
 

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Been in a relationship the last 4 years, recently married. About 3 times a week, she wants it just as much as I do, has been like that since the start and still is that way.

Some of my married friends tell me 1 to 5 times a year.... I would kill myself.
I wouldn't kill myself if that was the case but I sure as fvck would divorce. That's just tragic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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