"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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--How many chicks have you banged in 2008?--

Target_100

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I did 7.... SO FAR HAHA! And there's two more months to go! YEAH! I'm going sarging at clubs and everywhere else!

My main problem is approach anxiety. If I know a few days in advance that there will be sarging AA seems to be low, if suddenly there is sarging i still get anxious and procrastinate on approaching. I'm working on this.

Wish me luck I want at least three more in 2008!

:up: :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Target_100

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Only those that you banged for the first time counts, aight?
 

cockerdumbnuts

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12 but i'm working on 13 and 14 right now. Give me a month.

Best one week:
5 girls (age range 20-50 something - yeaaaah i know). including one tag team.
 

Target_100

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12 is nice. 50 years however...
 

Canadianpimpology

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1 chick from Jan 08 - Aug 08
4 chicks in Sept/Oct 08
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maan...I miss those days! Now a days Im too busy coaching, but this guy I recently coached, I think, had a three-some this past Friday, and met a girl at the club the following Saturday who he ****ed-close tht same night ... guys repeating my success.

Good luck players and keep doing your thing!
 

magickarl

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No lie --- 15.

Still banging 5 of them.

Out of the other ten, two of them can be marked down as a threesome, one was a one night close, and two of the remaining seven had boyfriends. The rest have nothing spectacular about them. I will own up to it and say that 3 of the last five were total hoodrats.

Looking forward to 2009!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
 

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2.0 said:
If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
The only thing better than *****, is new *****! - chris rock


My number....4 or 5 I think.
 

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Anyone else not count or just lose count...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Target_100

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2.0 said:
I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
LOL! Ever heard about HUMAN NATURE?

:)
 

J Roc

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2.0 said:
If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
variety :)
 

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If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
have you ever even had sex before?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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