"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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--How many chicks have you banged in 2008?--

Target_100

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I did 7.... SO FAR HAHA! And there's two more months to go! YEAH! I'm going sarging at clubs and everywhere else!

My main problem is approach anxiety. If I know a few days in advance that there will be sarging AA seems to be low, if suddenly there is sarging i still get anxious and procrastinate on approaching. I'm working on this.

Wish me luck I want at least three more in 2008!

:up: :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Target_100

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Only those that you banged for the first time counts, aight?
 

cockerdumbnuts

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12 but i'm working on 13 and 14 right now. Give me a month.

Best one week:
5 girls (age range 20-50 something - yeaaaah i know). including one tag team.
 

Target_100

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12 is nice. 50 years however...
 

Canadianpimpology

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1 chick from Jan 08 - Aug 08
4 chicks in Sept/Oct 08
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maan...I miss those days! Now a days Im too busy coaching, but this guy I recently coached, I think, had a three-some this past Friday, and met a girl at the club the following Saturday who he ****ed-close tht same night ... guys repeating my success.

Good luck players and keep doing your thing!
 

magickarl

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No lie --- 15.

Still banging 5 of them.

Out of the other ten, two of them can be marked down as a threesome, one was a one night close, and two of the remaining seven had boyfriends. The rest have nothing spectacular about them. I will own up to it and say that 3 of the last five were total hoodrats.

Looking forward to 2009!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
 

Warrior74

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2.0 said:
If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
The only thing better than *****, is new *****! - chris rock


My number....4 or 5 I think.
 

Sexual

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Anyone else not count or just lose count...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Target_100

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2.0 said:
I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
LOL! Ever heard about HUMAN NATURE?

:)
 

J Roc

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2.0 said:
If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
variety :)
 

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2.0 said:
If you're concerned about STDs/pregnancy it's probably best to do the same girl over and over rather than different girls. I don't understand the point of trying to get as many different girls as possible for the same number of bangs.
have you ever even had sex before?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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