I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't know some people like rifles. After they're banned you won't be able to buy even one new. They might even ban Glocks, who knows. But they'll for sure ban magazines with full capacity. It's kind of like the gov putting an 85 mph governor on sports cars, "because no one needs it..", or you have a 1st admendment right "but (now) you can't say x,y and z because of yadda yadda" if you catch my drift. The point is there will be bans, regulations and taxes and who knows what they will be. My personal opinion is guns are regulated enough as it is just leave it alone. And rights are being infringed on because no one "needs" rights..speakeasy said:I don't understand people who feel they need to be up their eyebrows in guns. If it's all about personal protection, one glock will do you just fine. I mean what the f-ck, are these guys trying to start a paramilitary?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Those guns aren't for me, I'm going to buy a rocket launcher :rockon:ketostix said:How many are buying AR-15's the "evil black rifle", AK's, SKS' and the like, high capacity magazines and ammo before the new administration bans, taxes and regulates all of them?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ya except it was never part of the definition of assault weapon. It *IS* part of the definition of Assault Rifle, but those have been strictly regulated since before you were alive. You consider yourself an expert on small arms?Teflon_Mcgee said:3. Three round burst and Fully auto. Okay. This has some slight validity.
Sure because the weak are only deserving of contempt, let them be victims. Remember kids, when seconds count, the police are only minutes away.fuzzx said:What about just learning martial arts if you need to feel more secure... at least here I can drive down the street and give everyone the finger without getting shot.
Aragon034 said:Though if i did buy one, i'd splurge big time and get a Sig Sauer P229.
bigjohnson said:Remember kids, when seconds count, the police are only minutes away.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Oh it's coming for sure. It's on the official presidential transition website that they want a permanent ban. They can't help themselves. Just how far the ban will go is unknown. And it's one of the dumbest things the new administration could do. They have a chance to ingratiate themselves to the opposition and change their views on Democrats and race relations and all that stuff but they won't. They will most likely antagonize gun owners and get into altercations with fringe gun owners just like Clinton did after '94. They should leave this alone.CGE333 said:Where is this legislation regarding this ban? I think it is typical NRA scare tactics as there is no ban coming for any type of reasonable firearms. Personal Tanks will probably still be off limits.
Regulated or not you can bet that even class III will be gone.bigjohnson said:Ya except it was never part of the definition of assault weapon. It *IS* part of the definition of Assault Rifle, but those have been strictly regulated since before you were alive. You consider yourself an expert on small arms?
First you have no idea about my fantasies, experience or training. Second I'm experienced, trained AND knowledgeable in the use of small arms INCLUDING .50 cal. weapons. Qualified expert in many at one time, also, own and use many, from .17 to .50 BMG.Teflon_Mcgee said:I mean a small arms expert as in an expert in the use and manipulation of sub .50 caliber weapons (foreign and domestic)as it pertains to actual combat. You know, the stuff guys like you fantisize about.
I think class III is so regulated as it has been that it's a non-issue. It's the coming wholesale ban of anything autoloading that really stinks.Teflon_Mcgee said:Regulated or not you can bet that even class III will be gone.
And sorry, when I said "small arms expert" I didn't mean as in a grown man who collects and studies firearms with secret fantasies about having to use them.
I mean a small arms expert as in an expert in the use and manipulation of sub .50 caliber weapons (foreign and domestic)as it pertains to actual combat. You know, the stuff guys like you fantisize about.
Lol, I'm hoping we can keep this thread civil. There are some out there like that though. I fantasize about more goergeous women who aren't feminist. I wonder if they'll get banned too lol? I think I'm running out of post nowYou know, the stuff guys like you fantisize about
Not even if the jack boots come to grab your guns? I'm kidding, this is a reference to some of those guys not you. You know though it's bound to happen that they will antagonize those types. They should just leave them alone and let them fantasize.First you have no idea about my fantasies, experience or training. Second I'm experienced, trained AND knowledgeable in the use of small arms INCLUDING .50 cal. weapons. Qualified expert in many at one time, also, own and use many, from .17 to .50 BMG. Finally, I don't want to kill anyone at any time in the future, let alone have fantasies regarding it. Nightmares more like.
If it comes to it then they will have them, and no I don't mean one bullet at a time. I'm a law abiding citizen and intend to remain one.ketostix said:Not even if the jack boots come to grab your guns? I'm kidding, this is a reference to some of those guys not you. You know though it's bound to happen that they will antagonize those types. They should just leave them alone and let them fantasize.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.