You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Im trying to gauge where everyone is with there confidence. I have kept it low due to the amount of people on this site that appear to have low confiedence or self of steam.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I think you should have said "1 day" as appose to "7 days" .... I approach women daily, everywhere. After you pass the stage where you are "scared" to approach women, you will actually see it as something fun, and exciting at times because every approach is a new/different experience... You are at the mall and see a chick looking at shoes, approach her and give her YOUR opinion on what she looks better in etc.. Approaching is over-rated in my opinion and really isn’t a big deal... The big deal is not making an ass of yourself.... So as long as your conversational skills are sufficient, you wont really have much to worry about
Laterz...
). How many chicks did i meet over the last week through friends etc. that i didn't know a week before? 16+Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you suggest I do? Go to the local shopping mall every day, since women like to shop? No one needs that many shirts and trousers.
What's your day-to-day life like that allows you to see so many different women?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
While I too think that your statement is mostly true, we have to give people the benefit of the doubt, because there really is NO WAY to find out the truth... But those that lie do get caught out sooner or later.... And at the end of the day its their loss because they are the people that are in denial and THEY are the people that arent getting any women.... more for me and you ey?