You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Im trying to gauge where everyone is with there confidence. I have kept it low due to the amount of people on this site that appear to have low confiedence or self of steam.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I think you should have said "1 day" as appose to "7 days" .... I approach women daily, everywhere. After you pass the stage where you are "scared" to approach women, you will actually see it as something fun, and exciting at times because every approach is a new/different experience... You are at the mall and see a chick looking at shoes, approach her and give her YOUR opinion on what she looks better in etc.. Approaching is over-rated in my opinion and really isn’t a big deal... The big deal is not making an ass of yourself.... So as long as your conversational skills are sufficient, you wont really have much to worry about
Laterz...
). How many chicks did i meet over the last week through friends etc. that i didn't know a week before? 16+Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What do you suggest I do? Go to the local shopping mall every day, since women like to shop? No one needs that many shirts and trousers.
What's your day-to-day life like that allows you to see so many different women?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
While I too think that your statement is mostly true, we have to give people the benefit of the doubt, because there really is NO WAY to find out the truth... But those that lie do get caught out sooner or later.... And at the end of the day its their loss because they are the people that are in denial and THEY are the people that arent getting any women.... more for me and you ey?