I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Im trying to gauge where everyone is with there confidence. I have kept it low due to the amount of people on this site that appear to have low confiedence or self of steam.Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I think you should have said "1 day" as appose to "7 days" .... I approach women daily, everywhere. After you pass the stage where you are "scared" to approach women, you will actually see it as something fun, and exciting at times because every approach is a new/different experience... You are at the mall and see a chick looking at shoes, approach her and give her YOUR opinion on what she looks better in etc.. Approaching is over-rated in my opinion and really isn’t a big deal... The big deal is not making an ass of yourself.... So as long as your conversational skills are sufficient, you wont really have much to worry about
Laterz...
). How many chicks did i meet over the last week through friends etc. that i didn't know a week before? 16+I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do you suggest I do? Go to the local shopping mall every day, since women like to shop? No one needs that many shirts and trousers.
What's your day-to-day life like that allows you to see so many different women?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
While I too think that your statement is mostly true, we have to give people the benefit of the doubt, because there really is NO WAY to find out the truth... But those that lie do get caught out sooner or later.... And at the end of the day its their loss because they are the people that are in denial and THEY are the people that arent getting any women.... more for me and you ey?