“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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fair point, but then we have to dig deeper on what most women do not find the guys attractive

I think most of it stems from the fact that most guys are actually weird. Weird enough that not even other guys want to spend time with them
Some guys are weird, but I think it's simpler than that. I think the way nature is set up is women are designed to be attractive, which triggers the males to desire them. Women are literally designed to be the objects of sexual desire. Men are not, they're designed for protection, providing, and action. The women choose among the men who compete for them/desire them. Of course they want the best they can get. The way the current culture is, and the way they want to remove gender roles, it as set a lot of that on its head, which is why dating dynamics are kind of broken now.
 

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Why would I venture out to hostile Yukon when I have Alaska, British Columbia, Washington, and Oregon?
One gains table scraps or less, when he refuses to risk either much, or nothing at all. Seriously though, OP:

You don't have to visit nightclubs to meet women, great... Hell, I don't frequent such venues now that I've essentially aged out of them, and wasn't even a fan in my teens and 20s. Point remains though, a fella's dating and mating pool will be shallower than Herschel Walker's grasp of nuclear physics, if he confines himself to bowling alleys(No diss: I enjoy this particular activity myself)and D&D cons

If the company of high quality individuals is what you're in the market for, you'll have to meet them wherever they're located
 
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One gains table scraps or less, when he refuses to risk either much, or nothing at all. Seriously though, OP:

You don't have to visit nightclubs to meet women, great... Hell, I don't frequent such venues now that I've essentially aged out of them, and wasn't even a fan in my teens and 20s. Point remains though, a fella's dating and mating pool will be shallower than Herschel Walker's grasp of nuclear physics, if he confines himself to bowling alleys(No diss: I enjoy this particular activity myself)and D&D cons

If the company of high-quality individuals is what you're in the market for, you'll have to meet them wherever they're located
Let's be real, if you had actual options, I doubt you would go to a nightclub every week.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Let's be real, if you had actual options, I doubt you would go to a nightclub every week.
Some enjoy such establishments, same way there are folks who

-Assert The MCU wasn't always whale sh-t, even during it's alleged glory days

-Insist that DiCaprio actually has talent beyond looking prettier than Winselt/Robbie in their respective primes, screaming at the top of his lungs in hamfusted stabs at expressing pathos, conning the general public into thinking he's really hetero

-Believe The Church Committe transformed The CIA into a force for righteousness, and that everything has been going along hunky dory since the bad ol' 70s ended

I'm no more a fan of clubbing than I am in agreement with the points aforementioned, nonetheless these are all my personal preferences/assessments
 
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